Some of his pals are gathering at 6 p.m. today to mark the anniversary at the site of last year's vigils.
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The tiny angels, stuffed animals, wooden crosses and other mementos that made up a makeshift memorial for 14-year-old Henry Waye have been returned, his father said.
Henry Waye Sr. said Tuesday that after a story appeared in The Bristol Press last week about the memorial’s disappearance, someone left the items at his house. He didn’t know who it was.
Now the grieving father wants his son’s friends to have those things back.
“It’s not my stuff to hold onto,” said Waye, who said he would welcome anyone who brought things to the memorial to come to his house to retrieve them.
“These are people who left something for my son,” Waye said. “It was theirs. They should have it back.”
After his son was killed by a hit and run driver on George Street a month ago, young mourners created a memorial on a fence at the Elk’s Club parking lot not far from the accident scene.
Teens made posters that included personal messages and photos of Henry and hung them on the fence. Visitors came to the memorial, signed the posters and left special items on and along the fence and the sidewalk.
When the memorial disappeared last week, Waye’s family asked that the items be returned. After the newspaper story ran, they were.
Waye said none of the posters were returned, but said he suspects they may have been ruined in the rain.
Since his son’s tragic death on March 5, there has been a steady stream of young visitors at his home, Waye said.
“My door’s been open to all his friends,” said Waye. “They cried on my shoulder. I cried on theirs.”
The community as a whole has been very supportive, Waye said.
Waye said he likes the idea that some of the city’s teens are pushing, to name the new skatepark at Rockwell Park after his son. But he said he knows it might not happen.
If there is a memorial to his son, said Waye, he’d like it to have enough room on it to include the names of any other children who may lose their lives in similar accidents.
Nearly 500 people, most of them high school students in Bristol, have joined a fast-growing new Justice for Henry Waye group online that seeks the arrest of “the jerk” who “killed a kid because he made the choice to drink and drive.”
“His death was so tragic and the way he passed away was so needless,” the group’s organizer, Alesia Ervin, a 2007 Bristol Central High School graduate, said Tuesday.
She said she wanted to get the word out that people died “when you drink and drive recklessly.”
A Central freshman, 14-year-old Henry Waye, Jr, died March 5 when a hit-and-run driver on George Street plowed into him and kept on going. The boy died a few hours later.
Police say alcohol was a factor in the accident but have not filed charges against the driver, Robert Park. Park, who is in rehabilitation, has been unavailable for comment.
Mariana Velez Escobar, a Central freshman said Tuesday this is a “time of confusion and frustration” for her classmates who “hope there will be a consequence for this man’s actions.”
Nicole Mitchell, another Central freshman, said Monday that she joined the new Facebook group “because people need to stop drinking and driving.”
Another Central freshman, Megan Swenton, said Monday she knew Waye “and I really want there to be justice for him.”
Ervin said she never expected the number of people in her group to “go that high and so fast” when she set it up last weekend.
She said she chose to establish the group on Facebook because “there’s lot of kids out there who have Facebook accounts” and the system itself ensures that friends will learn about new groups their friends join, which helps spread the word.
Katelyn Mill, a Central junior, said Monday that Waye was “a good kid. He always had a smile on his face and he didn’t deserve to die the way he did or at his age.”
“Henry deserves justice to the stupid man who struck him,” Mill said, adding that she completely supports the effort to make sure the driver faces charges.
Amy Masi, a junior at Bristol Eastern High School, said Monday that she signed up for the group even though she never knew Waye.
“I feel somehow connected to him through feeling of loss,” she said. “I know what it feels like to lose someone close to you, so I joined the group to support all those who were extremely close to Henry.”
“My heart is with them through their pain,” Masi said.
Catherine Boyce, an Eastern sophomore, said Monday she didn’t know Waye but “can only hope that the man who killed him will be found and punished for his actions.”
“He now will have to live with the fact that he killed an innocent life, which would be enough to make me turn myself in if I were him,” she said. “I could never live with such guilt.”
“I joined this group because i find that it is unbelievable that the police have not arrested the man who committed such a heinous crime,” Eastern senior Cameron Aiken said Monday.
“If the police have evidence and know for a fact that” Park was responsible, Aiken asked, “Why hasn’t he been arrested yet?”
Aiken said that Waye’s father and sister must feel awful because Park “hasn’t been brought to justice.”
“It’ll bring closure and a little relief to his family by bringing this man to justice,” Aiken said.
Police say they are making sure they build a careful case against the driver so that they can charge him with the most serious possible offense and ensure his conviction. It may be several months or more before charges are filed.
In the meantime, Park’s truck has been seized and searched for forensic evidence that might tie it to the crime. Police found Park at his home not long after the accident, drunk and suicidal, according to Mayor Art Ward’s account of what police told him.
A number of people on the group’s website said they would like to see the community take a harsher stance against drinking and driving.
“There’s just a lot of crazy drivers who need to be brought to justice,” said Jessica Ceballos, a Central junior whose cousin was hit by a car last year and badly hurt.
Ervin said that she hopes everyone learns a lesson from this tragedy – to “think before you drink.”
Mitchell said that “maybe they should make worse punishments for drinking and driving.”
“I hope all the people in Bristol can learn to be better, safer drivers seeing what the end results of reckless driving can be,” said Escobar.
How to join the group
Follow this link.
Note: This story was updated on Tuesday at 2:20 p.m., replacing the initial version.
Hundreds of young people turned out Monday at the Bailey Funeral Home for the wake of 14-year-old hit-and-run victim Henry Waye, Jr.
But even more teens joined online memorial sites that sprouted up after Waye’s death Thursday as students sought solace on familiar websites.
The creator of a MySpace page devoted to Waye, Bristol Central High School junior Noelle Rondini, said she established the site in memory of the friendly boy she’d known since sixth grade.
Rondini’s memorial page had 279 members Monday night. Two sites on Facebook had well over 400 members.
Central student Phoenix Pedrosa, a friend of Waye’s, said, “We all need to keep his memory alive and nowadays the internet is the best way to do that and reach the most people possible.”
Amanda Eagle, another Central junior, said she joined one of the Facebook groups even though she didn’t know Waye.
But, she said, “he was a student at my school. He will always be a member of the Bristol Central family.”
Waye died Thursday evening after a pickup truck ran into him on the wrong side of the road on George Street. The driver, who hasn’t been identified, didn’t even stop to try to help.
The boy walking with Waye, Logan Costante, described the vehicle to police, who found it 45 minutes later several hundred yards further up the street.
Waye’s friends, classmates and other young people have struggled to make sense of his death – and to search for something to do.
Derek Cody, a Plainville High School junior, said that on Saturday he bowled a perfect game that he attributed to Waye, who loved bowling.
“Thank you, Henry, for guiding my hand today to give you what you deserve,” Cody wrote on his Facebook page.
Nicole Mitchell, a Central freshman, wrote a poem for Waye that she posted online that included the line “Life can begin and end so fast/ The memory of Henry Waye will always last.”
Mitchell set up one of the sites. She said it was supposed to be a place to talk about Waye and their feelings about his death.
Eagle said that Waye’s death “has taught me that sometime life can be cut short so you have to live it to the fullest.”
Waye “was a kid that could make anyone happy,” Rondini said.
Police refuse to talk
Three days after the driver of a white Chevrolet pickup truck killed a 14-yar-old pedestrian on George Street and kept on going, police are still refusing to identify the man.
Lt. Edward Spyros said that because there is an ongoing investigation, he cannot say anything about who operated or owned the pickup truck, which has been impounded.
Spyros said that police were collecting evidence in the case and that charges may not be filed for months.
The Bristol Press filed a Freedom of Information request Monday for the accident report, police calls to the address of a suspect, the search warrant and other documents.
A George Street man, whose identity is known to the Press, owns a white 1996 Chevrolet pickup truck that was not at his home Monday. Nobody answered the door at his house.
Two neighbors said they could not say whether the police had taken the truck or talked to the man.
Spyros said he did not want to see someone named as a suspect who might turn out to be innocent.
Links:
A MySpace memorial page for Henry Waye, Jr
RIP Henry Preston Waye, Jr (Facebook group)
RIP Henry Waye (another Facebook group)